Reality of Love

Love is a very shallow thing, materialistc, and thus easily mutable, and removable.

Imagine a patch of grass and a banyan tree..

The grass can be easily dug out, moved around as per need, and discarded and reinstated when wished.

A deep rooted tree, will be hard to remove. The roots will remain,  even if you'd cut down the tree, it stays there burried forever.

If love were like the banyan tree, there would be no breakups, everybody would have just one relationship, and it would last for eternity even if it was cut down.

but love like grass, is easily broken, easily moved over to another as the needs change, forgotten as though it never existed, and always replaceable.

Love comes when it needs something, when the expectations are fulfilled, when there is materialistic and physical worth. If any of it is lacking, the love changes.

So not give too much importance to the feeling of love..  it is just a survival mechanism, embeded in the brain to sustain the species .

Rather focus on yourself, improve yourself, be physically appealing, and be successful. Love will follow you wherever you go.